The following local resources can help direct you to information and resources helpful for parents of teens:
Girls Incorporated of Holyoke is offering Growing Together, a fun and interactive program for girls ages 9 to11 and a parent or other trusted adult. This five-session program is designed to open up crucial two-way conversations about puberty and sexuality issues, opening doors to future communication. Growing Together groups are available in both Holyoke and Chicopee. For more information, please contact Robin at (413)533-0796, ext. 206. Se habla español.
- Set clear rules for acceptable and unacceptable behavior. Family rules should address: alcohol, tobacco, and other drug use, fighting, and curfew, etc. These become the family rules that everyone in the family follows, including parents.
- Create rewards for meeting family rules and expectations.
- Define negative consequences for breaking family rules and consequences.
- Involve your teen in creating rewards and consequences.
- Plan fun activities with your teen.
- Take an interest in your teen’s interests.
- Reward good behavior and prosocial activities.
- KEEP TALKING! (examples: Ask what the best/worst thing about their day was and share yours with them as well. –OR- Learn to text! Just a simple “Hi! How’s your day going?” let’s your teen know you are thinking about them and that you care about what they are doing.)
- Know where your teen is and what they are doing.
- Meet your teen’s friends and their parents. Share with them your family rules and expectations of your teen.
- If your teen is going to a friend’s house, call the friend’s parents to confirm the plans and ensure that an adult will be home.
The Holyoke Youth Task Force is committed to the well-being and success of Holyoke youth. Part of this commitment is to provide support and resources to parents looking to keep their teens away from alcohol and other drugs. Aside from helpful websites designed specifically for parents, visitors may also fill out the contact form to receive more information or materials. Local resources that may be helpful to parents are also listed.
Brought to you by the Holyoke Youth Task Force, funded by a SAMSHA Drug Free Communities grant and
the Massachusetts Department of Public Health.